Of all the heartbreaking, soul-inspiring things he writes, the sentence about the waitress is the one that brought tears to my eyes. Shiva is the week of intense mourning that many Jews observe after a death in the family, during which the mourners do not prepare food. Serving a shiva meal in a pizza place: that’s what we will have to do for each other, white for black, non-Jews for Jews, non-Muslims for Muslims, native citizens for immigrants, hetero for LGB, cis for trans, native English speakers for English as a Second Language learners: everyone who has not been the latest salvo’s target for those who have been, because as long as we are united we cannot be defeated.
It makes me double down on my resolve to actively ally with those whose “category” I don’t share, especially African-Americans. I confess my slowness to take up their cause as passionately as my own, to respond as energetically to threats to their children as I do to threats to my own. I ask for their forgiveness, and forbearance as I work to change.
And I have an appeal to other religious leaders. Many of Pittsburgh’s Jewish leaders have told the president that he is not welcome to come to them as long as he is fomenting hate and violence. The murderer’s words were straight out of Trump’s speeches; the vicious, false fantasy of the dangerous refugee is the one Trump stoked and rode to the White House. His presence can do nothing to heal our wounds unless he accepts responsibility for his demagoguery and turns it around 180 degrees. And they are our wounds, not just Jews’ (as they were Saturday in Pittsburgh) or African-Americans’ (as they were on Wednesday in Jeffersontown, Kentucky) or Muslims’ (as they are prevented from traveling) or Mexicans’ and Central Americans’ (as they are in children’s prisons all along the border) or trans* folks’ (as their lives are redefined by the pseudoscience of bigots).
So we should all deliver the same message as those Jewish leaders in Pittsburgh: no politician who is inciting terrorism and enacting fascist policies is welcome in our communities. Trump doesn’t come to the Bay Area anyway, because he only likes to visit cheering crowds, but I’m still drafting a letter from clergy to the White House from my region because it’s what decent people do when others are threatened.
Will you do the same, dear colleagues of all faiths? Will you sign on, dear people of all faiths?
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The following is the letter for our region. People of faith of the Bay Area, please “sign” in the comments, and I will compile all the names into a letter, which may be posted online as well as to the press. The names of faith communities and organizations are given for identification purposes only.
To President Trump:
We are faith community leaders and members in the San Francisco Bay Area. Like the leaders in Pittsburgh and tens of thousands of signers who asked you to stay away, we request that you not come to our region until you denounce white nationalism with both your words and your actions.
We have seen the rise of fascism before, and we recognize it in what you are doing and what you are inspiring. Demagogues whip their followers into acts of violence. These leaders need never strike a blow in order to rain down terror upon the people; indeed, many have been less explicit than you. You have urged your followers to beat members of the crowd, “Second Amendment people” to “do something” about Secretary Clinton, and police to slam suspects’ heads into cars. You have hailed as “[your] kind of guy” a thug who assaulted a journalist. Your power is built on scapegoating of the vulnerable.
Furthermore, you spread lies that feed fear and hatred. Your false, frequently-repeated claim that asylum-seekers, refugees and undocumented immigrants commit a disproportionate number of crimes was the reason the killer in Pittsburgh gave for his assault upon a synagogue that helps settle refugees.
You have consistently, repeatedly set yourself up as a threat to innocent people, due process, and democracy itself, and you have sought to enlist your followers to put your threatening words into action. When we look at our nation’s history, we see the times fascism has risen and been put down, and we vow to be this generation’s upholders of justice, democracy, and human rights. Until you uphold them as well, please do not come to the Bay Area.
In faith,
Rev. Amy Zucker Morgenstern
Unitarian Universalist Church of Palo Alto
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October 29, 2018 at 10:42 pm
Roger
Please add my signature. Thank you! Rev. Dr. Chris Schriner, Minister Emeritus, Mission Peak Unitarian Universalist Congregation, Fremont CA
Done! AZM
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October 29, 2018 at 11:02 pm
Debbie Mytels
Let us hope that Trump may have a glimmer of awareness about the demons his hateful, angry rhetoric has unleashed. Member, Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, Redwood City, CA
Thanks for signing, Debbie. I’m not hopeful about his awareness, but I’m still very hopeful about ours. That’s what will make the difference. AZM
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October 30, 2018 at 12:34 am
buxmontcandidates
Rev. Jo Green, Fremont CA
Got it! (with your full info that you e-mailed) –AZM
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October 30, 2018 at 6:36 am
bfkmeyers
Please add my signature. Barbara Meyers
Done! Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 6:45 am
Sonya Sukalski
Rev. Sonya Sukalski, Castro Valley, CA
I’ve been looking for something concrete to do from this side of the country besides feeling for the people grieving. This is something!
It’s just one small action, but it’s something I want everyone in a country threatened by autocracy to do. Thanks! –AZM
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October 30, 2018 at 7:46 am
Castor Fu
Please count me in, — Dr. Castor Fu, Member UUCPA
Done!
Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 9:24 am
Claire Eustace
Claire Eustace, UU ministerial candidate & member, First Unitarian Church of Oakland
Got you! Thanks, Claire. –Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 10:20 am
Donna Brewer
We need to support each other!
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October 30, 2018 at 10:31 am
ceustace
Claire Eustace, UU ministerial candidate and member, First Unitarian Church of Oakland
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October 30, 2018 at 10:50 am
David Usher
Sign me up, Amy, with thanks for your initiative. David Usher
Done!
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October 30, 2018 at 11:16 am
Kathy Parmentier
I think you should remove the “please”. Sing me up.
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October 30, 2018 at 11:45 am
Rev. Neal T. Anderson
Rev. Neal Anderson, Pleasant Hill, CA
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October 30, 2018 at 12:30 pm
Tom Lewis
I cannot do everything or something to exercise my free speech but I can do some thing, sign this letter.
Done!
Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 1:49 pm
Jeannie Owen
Thank you so much for speaking truth to power.
Thanks for signing!
Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 2:22 pm
Fra∴ V∴ T∴ (@TuaVoluntas)
Alessandro Gagliardi
Oakland, CA
Thank you!
Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 2:59 pm
Marcus Hartlief
Thanks for doing this, Amy.
Rev. Marcus Hartlief
Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Marin
San Rafael, CA
Thanks for signing, Marcus. –Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 4:08 pm
Joanna Shenk
Rev. Joanna Lawrence Shenk, Associate Pastor, First Mennonite Church of San Francisco. Thank you for writing this letter!
Thanks so much for signing!
Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 4:09 pm
Alison Faison
Please add my signature. Alison Faison, Calvary Presbyterian Church, San Francisco, Faith in Action Bay Area
Done!
Amy
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October 30, 2018 at 4:31 pm
Rev. Ben Meyers
Thank you, Rev. Amy, for your articulate passion and your leadership in the form of this statement of solidarity, resistance and radical love. Blessings,
Rev. Ben Meyers, Minister, Unitarian Universalists of San Mateo, CA.
Gotcha! Thanks. –AZM
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October 30, 2018 at 8:29 pm
Emily Stoper
Trump needs to get the message that American Jews won’t welcome his condemnation of anti-Semitism if it leaves all other minorities out in the cold, the victims of his lashing rhetoric.
Amen, amen, amen. Is that a signature?
Amy
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October 31, 2018 at 9:59 am
Emily Stoper
My name is Emily Stoper and I wish to sign the letter. I am told that making a statement as a comment with my name in it is the only way to do so.
Done, Emily! Thank you! –AZM
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October 31, 2018 at 11:06 am
Karen Skold
Please add my name: Karen Skold
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October 31, 2018 at 4:47 pm
Samina
Dear Jewish friends, you are not alone. We are here for you.
Saturday morning a shooter walked into a Pittsburgh synagogue during its service and reportedly yelled “all Jews must die” and started shooting which resulted in the death of eleven people and the wounding of others, including four police officers.
American Muslim Voice Foundation offers it deepest condolences to the Tree of Life synagogue congregation, victims, their families, friends and Jewish community. These heinous attacks have no room in America.
We must practice and demand a “zero tolerance” policy for any expressions of anti black, anti immigrants, anti-Semitism, Islamophobia, and targeting sacred places of worship. As Americans, we stand in solidarity with our Jewish cousins and all of our fellow Americans to say, we will not tolerate these acts of hate, bigotry and violence.
Dear Jewish friends, you are not alone. We are here for you. Please guide us as to the best ways we can support you at this difficult time.
Thanks,
Samina Sundas
650-387-1994
Beautiful, Samina. I assume I can add your signature to the list. –Amy
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October 31, 2018 at 4:48 pm
Samina
I would also like to sign the letter.
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October 31, 2018 at 5:28 pm
Talley Kenyon
Please add my name. Talley Kenyon, Palo Alto Friends Meeting
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October 31, 2018 at 5:49 pm
Forest Preston
I am in accord with this letter, though if i were writing it I would have ended the first paragraph without the disinvite and just said “…we request that you denounce white nationalism with both your words and your actions. “
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October 31, 2018 at 7:39 pm
MATTHEW MCDERMOTT
Add my name Amy. Enough is enough.
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October 31, 2018 at 9:26 pm
Mary Klein
Please add me as a signatory.
Mary Klein, Palo Alto, CA
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October 31, 2018 at 9:27 pm
mck4wp
Please add me as a signatory.
Mary Klein, Palo Alto Friends Meeting
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November 1, 2018 at 9:25 am
Rev. Dean Koyama
Let’s make America Great Again through Kindness, not hate!
Yes please add my name:
Rev. Dean Koyama,
Resident Minister,
Palo Alto Buddhist Temple,
Palo Alto, CA. 94303
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November 1, 2018 at 10:02 am
David Zucker
Sign me in. DaviD Zucker
I’m going to keep it regional, but you could start one in Tucson. xoxo A
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November 1, 2018 at 2:51 pm
seaverstanfordedu
I share your sentiments and would like to add my name.
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November 2, 2018 at 10:19 am
Heather Christensen
Thanks for this beautiful post, Amy. When you mentioned that the shiva comment had brought tears to your eyes, I realized that I hadn’t noticed that detail. It sent me back to the FB post for a deeper reading. Thank you.
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November 2, 2018 at 10:21 am
Heather Christensen
Thank you for this beautiful post, Amy. The first time I read this FB post, I missed the pizza place shiva comment. You sent me back for a second, deeper reading. Thank you.
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